Sshh! I Secretly Love That My Daughter Loves Disney’s Frozen

In January, something in our lives changed. No seriously, it did!

We took our three-year-old to the cinema for the first time. It was something both Mr P and I had been looking forward to, because a) we love watching movies and b) it’s 90 minutes of quiet time, right? (Side note: a dad sitting in front of us actually fell asleep and woke himself up by snoring. Love it.)

The movie we went to see was Frozen. Given that we had been watching Tangled on repeat for around a year, we reckoned it was a fairly safe bet she’d like it. We were wrong. She didn’t like it. She loved it. In fact, she cried as the credits rolled at the end. In the days that followed, she asked to see “the ice princesses” on YouTube a lot – thank goodness the Disney YouTube channel had around six clips, including of course the now-classic anthem Let It Go.

But it was a couple of weeks ago that my three-year-old’s passion for Frozen really kicked in. The DVD release. Since then, we’ve watched the film over 20 times. My daughter asks to watch it while she’s eating her breakfast, while she’s eating her pre-bedtime snacks, oh and pretty much any time we’re in the house, ever. She’s now nearly word-perfect when singing Let It Go (and yeeeees, I have approximately 12 videos of her singing it in typical proud-mum fashion.) It’s OK, though, because I’m fairly sure the other diners in Pizza Express (and the customers in Marks and Spencer, and everyone walking along Bromley High Street) appreciate her ear-piercing warbling too. Er, right?

“I’m Elsa and you’re Anna” she tells her friends at pre-school, when they’re playing “Frozen”. She brings drawings home and proudly tells us “That’s Anna and that’s Prince Hans of the Southern Isles.” And she corrects you if you pronounce it “Anna”, saying, “No Mummy, it’s Auuuuna.” Oh. Sorry.

It’s fair to say my three-year-old is currently obsessed with Frozen. But rather than being worried by it, or finding it annoying, actually, I quite like it. Apart from the fact that it’s nice to see her develop a real love for something in the way that we all do (over the years, for me, it’s been things like Bunty magazine, Saved By The Bell, Sweet Valley High books, Degrassi Junior High and Take That) I like it because… well… I love Frozen too.

I know. It’s not a very cool thing to admit. Parents are meant to be all “Argh! I hate kids films!” and when it comes to certain children’s movies, I’m right there, thinking that. We recently went to see a Barbie movie. The three-year-old loved it, but for me it was as enjoyable as giving birth. Seriously, I want that 75 minutes of my life back, please.

But Frozen. I could listen to the musical score all day (which is lucky, because I do). It was co-written by Robert Lopez, a broadway musical writer, whose work includes Avenue Q and The Book Of Mormon. Which explains so much. I love a musical, and the numbers like Summer (Olaf the snowman’s brilliant song) and Fixer Upper make me want to put on some jazz shoes and step-ball-change across a stage.

As well as being written as a musical, the lyrics have a ‘modern’ feel to them (just think of Anna singing “There’ll be actual real live people, it’ll be totally strange” in For The First Time In Forever). Kristen Anderson-Lopez, who co-wrote the Frozen score with her husband Robert, has spoken about writing Let It Go, saying, “We got very emo. We decided we didn’t want this song to be a traditional Disney princess song, so we were listening to singer-songwriters like Aimee Mann and Tori Amos and Sara Bareilles, and we just wanted to approach this song in a different way. Actually, it was Bobby who kept saying, “I feel like if I were a high-school student, that this would be that moment that you had worked and you had studied and you hadn’t gone out and then you just failed a test miserably, and what would that feel like?”

And of course, the movie has a brilliant feminist message (unlike so many other Disney movies) but I hadn’t realised until now that the writers felt so strongly about creating a modern Disney heroine who doesn’t get saved by a prince’s kiss (Ugh, Snow White, you totally let down your sisters…) Kristen explains this, when she talks about a song from the film that was cut – a song that was about Anna and Elsa not being the perfect princesses that the world thought they were. Kristen says, “It got cut, but you can tell the whole movie is full of this point of view — as much as [screenwriter and co-director] Jennifer Lee and I could put in it, because we’re both Park Slope moms [New York’s version of Nappy Valley], we both went through the ’90s, we took the women’s-studies courses, and I knew I wouldn’t be able to push my kids on the swing at the playground if I had written a movie where the girl wore the puffy dress and was saved not by anything active she did, but by being beautiful enough to be kissed by a prince.”

So I’m happy that my daughter is Frozen-mad. If Elsa and Anna are her heroines then that’s cool with me, and I’m enjoying hearing the music drift through blast out my house every day. Have I just broken an unspoken Mum Rule by admitting this? Probably.

Confession: I love Frozen



  1. sarah naylor-hagger
    April 14, 2014 / 8:34 am

    I love that my son loves frozen. I’m a little bit frozen obsessed. I love that he wants to be “the blue princess” (and not only cause I am the green princess in his eyes) and he doesn’t have a problem wanting to be a princess. I love that he asks me if I found him in the snow when I go into him in the morning.

  2. Charlie
    April 14, 2014 / 8:37 am

    Having heard it everyday for the last couple of months, Olaf’s song is ‘IN Summer’..(it’s ok..rookie mistake 🙂

    Seriously, as a Dad who was raised in a family of two sisters, I have grown up with Disney so am maybe one of the few remaining Dads that genuinely likes things from the ‘Mouse-House’.

    Frozen is exceptionally good with a strong message which my 3 yr old loves too (she sings the lot!) but it’s still no ‘Beauty and the Beast’ in my book..:)

    Love the blog..cheers!

    • Alison Perry
      April 14, 2014 / 1:44 pm

      haha! You got me. I’m clearly not as big a fan as I thought 😉

  3. April 14, 2014 / 8:54 am

    We LOVE Frozen too in our house 🙂 I think we’ve watched it at least 20 times this week haha! x

    • Alison Perry
      April 14, 2014 / 1:45 pm

      Only 20? 😉

  4. April 14, 2014 / 9:27 am

    I LOVED Sweet Valley High. From what you say you liked from your childhood, I can tell that we would have been BFF’s if we knew each other when we were little. Love a bit of Frozen here too. 😉

    • Alison Perry
      April 14, 2014 / 1:45 pm

      Ahh I bet that’s true Kate 🙂

  5. April 14, 2014 / 10:01 am

    I agree. Its a brilliant message for girl that life isn’t about ‘waiting for your prince’.

    I’m a mummy to a 5 month old girl and huge Disney fan… good job me thinks!

  6. April 14, 2014 / 8:21 pm

    I’m just in from watching it for a fourth time and Fixer Upper is running through my brain. The kids beg to be allowed to watch again, and again, and tell me I can stay at my desk and work, but honestly, what are laptops for if not to watch Frozen from behind..?

  7. April 15, 2014 / 7:19 pm

    I loved Frozen. Like you, it was our first trip as a family to the cinema. I loved it so much I came home and wrote a post about it! PS: Let It Go – total tune.

  8. April 15, 2014 / 8:04 pm

    I could sing ‘Love is an Open Door’ until the cows come home. I LOVE it. I do all the harmonies with myself in the car – it’s pretty special!

  9. April 16, 2014 / 7:33 pm

    I still need to see this! I’m slowly warming the toddler up to the idea of watching something other than Peppa Pig *rolls eyes* so that I can see it! xx lol

  10. April 17, 2014 / 1:45 pm

    “Let it gooooooooo”
    OK I own up I have just watched it , how good is this !

  11. A
    April 19, 2014 / 1:53 am

    My 3 year old cannot stop talking about Frozen, and singing “Do you want to build a Snowman”. Being from Scandinavian origin (like I understand the film is) I really regret not being there with her (she went with her mom and a friend as I has to do some work), my wife was worried she would stay still for all of it but she was captivated by it and apparently she also cried when the credits rolled. There really is seems to be something special about this film and I can’t wait to watch it!

  12. May 5, 2014 / 10:31 am

    We love Frozen in this house and the soundtrack seems to be permanently being played! (Tangled is still my all time favourite Disney movie though – and yes I know I’m way too old to be saying that!)

    Thanks so much for linking up with #100DaysOfDisney xx

  13. May 7, 2014 / 4:06 pm

    There is nothing wrong with being a mum and LOVING Frozen! It’s one of my new favourites and I’m always listening to the soundtrack!!!!!

    I also remember Degrassi Junior High, reading the Sweet Valley High books and screaming at my fair share of Take That concerts!!

    Thank you for sharing this at the #100DaysOfDisney link party, you’re welcome to add more posts to it over the next 100 days! eep!! xx

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